Top Dating Tips: Real Advice for Real-World Encounters

Roxanne Blake
March 2, 2025
Top Dating Tips: Real Advice for Real-World Encounters

It’s easy to get along on a date with a London escort, of course—but we’re not just here to help you with that.

At All Stars Escorts, we take pride in offering a refined, seamless booking experience with some of the most elegant companions in the city. But we also know that life extends beyond the moments you spend with us. Whether you’re dating casually, seeking a relationship, or just brushing up on your social skills, a bit of grounded advice can go a long way.

Here are some timeless dating tips to help you navigate real-world encounters—with charm, confidence, and authenticity.


There Are No Rules (Sort Of)

Let’s get this out of the way first: there are no strict rules when it comes to dating—other than the obvious ones involving basic human decency. Don’t dive in for a kiss the second she sits down. Don’t monologue for 45 minutes without asking her a single question. You know, the usual.

Beyond that, the most important thing to remember is this: if she’s going to like you, she’ll want to like you. Not some filtered, scripted version of you. Not a fantasy you think she’ll buy into. Just… you.


Be Yourself (Yes, Really)

It might sound cliché, but pretending to be someone you’re not is the fastest route to awkward silences, disappointing second dates—or worse, getting caught in a web of nonsense that collapses under its own weight.

You don’t need to be flashy, rich, or overly clever. You just need to be honest and present. Confidence isn’t about being the loudest guy in the room—it’s about being comfortable in your own skin. If she’s into you, she’ll be into you. If she’s not? Better to know early.


Admit You’re Nervous

Here’s a secret: nerves are attractive—when you own them. Saying, “I’m a bit nervous, actually” shows honesty, vulnerability, and emotional intelligence. And let’s face it, she’s probably nervous too. The people who seem totally unphased on a first date? They’re either professional charmers… or mild psychopaths.

The key is not to overdo it. Mention it lightly, with a smile. You’re not looking for pity—you’re signalling that you’re human, self-aware, and not afraid to be real.


Don’t Talk About Your Ex (Please)

It’s a classic blunder. You start off well, a drink or two in, and then—bam—you’re suddenly recounting the tragic tale of your last relationship. Don’t do it. No one wants to hear about your ex on a date. Especially not on the first one.

If the topic comes up naturally and you need to touch on it briefly, fine. But don’t dwell, don’t compare, and certainly don’t rant. You’re here to build something new—not drag old ghosts to the table.


Ask Better Questions

Forget “What do you do?” and “Where are you from?” Ask questions that invite a story or an opinion. Try:

  • “What’s something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t yet?”
  • “What kind of weekend makes you feel most alive?”
  • “What’s the last thing that made you laugh way too hard?”

The goal isn’t to interrogate—it’s to spark connection. Let her talk, listen properly, and follow up with genuine curiosity. That’s how memorable conversations happen.


Dress Like You Give a Damn

This isn’t about labels or style trends. It’s about effort. You don’t need to look like you’ve stepped off a magazine cover—but you should look like you care. Clean shoes, well-fitting clothes, and attention to grooming go a long way.

The same rule applies if you’re meeting one of our companions at All Star Escorts. Whether it’s a fine dining experience or a casual afternoon drink, making the effort to present yourself well shows respect—for both yourself and your date.


Don’t Oversell, Don’t Undershare

There’s a sweet spot between bragging and clamming up completely. Don’t try to impress with overblown stories or humblebrags. But also don’t keep things surface-level the entire time.

Let her see what matters to you. Talk about what excites you, challenges you, motivates you. A bit of openness (without oversharing) creates intimacy. And that’s where the magic happens.


Final Thoughts: It’s Not a Performance

Dating isn’t a job interview, and it’s not a performance. It’s two people trying to figure out whether there’s enough spark, connection, and mutual curiosity to keep going.

Some dates will lead to romance. Some might lead to friendship. Some will fizzle. That’s all part of the game. But if you approach each one with honesty, warmth, and a willingness to be seen, you’re already doing better than most.

And when you’re in the mood for guaranteed chemistry and engaging conversation without the pressure of dating? Let All Stars Escorts introduce you to London’s most elegant companions—where connection, discretion, and quality come first.

Roxanne Blake

Article by Roxanne Blake

Roxanne Blake began escorting in London in her early twenties, eventually becoming one of the North West’s most in-demand companions. Known for her warmth, wit, and unshakeable work ethic, Roxanne thrived in the industry by building genuine connections and maintaining high standards—on bookings, online, and behind the scenes. Now retired from the day-to-day, she focuses on mentoring newcomers and writing no-nonsense advice columns. Roxanne is passionate about helping others protect their boundaries, earn well, and navigate the industry with confidence and class. Her straight-talking, grounded voice is a trusted favourite at All Star Escorts.

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